The most fascinating thing about this topic is the number of people who want to, as much as possible, avoid it. Which is quite valid, I understand. It just is not your everyday topic of discussion. However, it’s something that should be discussed before the big event.
It’s important to understand that sex is a beautiful thing. It’s a gift of nature that all on this planet possess. Don’t be afraid; the nervousness probably means that the two of you are virgins. This is the greatest gift you can grant each other as human beings, the gift of loving one another physically as well as mentally.
One of the best ways to kill nervousness in the first night is by obtaining prior advice. Let the person offering this solicited advice be of good faith. A lady or gentleman who has had experience in marriage. They will be in the best position to give counsel on the what-nots and the how-to’s as well.
Something else you will come to learn is that more often than not, couples rarely ever have sexual intercourse on the very wedding night. With all the celebrations happening and events of the day, fatigue ends up as the order of the night. So don’t put too much pressure on it. Hugging and cuddling will definitely do the two of you a great deal of comfort being intimately close to one another. That can be the first step before heading directly for sex.
So, as you probably feel you need to do right now, talk about it. Sex is not some sort of nuclear negotiation between warring states! It’s God’s beautiful gift to humanity. Demystify the ideas you all have about sex. Sadly, the media has in so many ways perverted sex that it has been made to appear as such a vice that even talking about it becomes a problem for many.
As we close remember, do not over think things. Sex is a simple and very pleasant part of our lives. A part that we could not be able to live without as humans. After all, we do need to multiply and fill the earth; what better way to do it? So, take that bold step, talk about it, and I pray that your marriage may be blessed the more for granting each other the gift of your chastity.
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